reconcile
     v 1: make compatible with; "The scientists had to accommodate the
          new results with the existing theories" [syn: {accommodate},
           {conciliate}]
     2: bring into consonance or accord; "harmonize one's goals with
        one's abilities" [syn: {harmonize}, {harmonise}]
     3: come to terms; "After some discussion we finally made up"
        [syn: {patch up}, {make up}, {conciliate}, {settle}]
     4: accept as inevitable; "He resigned himself to his fate"
        [syn: {resign}, {submit}]
Source: WordNet® 2.0